33 and have become a widow.

Hi, I’m 33 with 2 young children (ages 4 and 2) and I’ve just lost my husband (35) to cancer. He had a very hard battle with a rare type of cancer and we knew this day would come soon but it doesn’t make it any easier. Children have taken it okay, I know they will process everything in their own ways but their mummy is just crying all the time. He only passed away on Thursday but I’m just so lost, I miss him so much and this is the worst pain I’ve ever felt.

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Hello
I’m so sorry you’re going through this awful experience. Life is so cruel sometimes.
I can imagine how much you’re suffering - I lost my wife, my soulmate and best friend, just six months ago. I miss her so, so much.
Somehow we have to carry on - it’s really hard, but we have no choice.
I’m sure your little ones will keep you busy and give you moments of comfort, even when everything feels unbearable. Try to be kind to yourself and take each hour as it comes. You’re not alone - everyone here understands something of what you’re going through.
Sending my very best wishes,

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Hi
I am truly sorry for your loss.
Here for a chat if you need it

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Hi
I cannot imagine how you are feeling
I am 6 weeks into my bereavment my wife was only 48
But i miss her every second
But compared to your loss i cannot imagine how devastating that must be for you .my heart goes out for you and hope you stay strong !
I know words we say dont really help as its a very very personal battle of emotions we are alone in .

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Hi cat
Im sorry for your loss
I lost my wife 6 weeks ago still cant sleep .dont eat much
Im hoping it will get easier soon because the grief is killing me

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I am so sorry to hear you are suffering I am 25 weeks in.

Hi
If you don’t mind me asking what happened?
Do you have any support?
Family?

Hi Jessica
I am so sorry you are suffering.
If you want to chat I am here.

Hi Jessica

I know it’s hell I lost my wife 7 weeks ago and I have been in hell since ive not worked and gad to see a doctor

I am a little bit better now slightly less emotional but I’m still not there yet.it will be a long journey but you will get there eventually

I’m sure his love is with you and he’s watching over you and the children