It’s been 4weeks since I lost hubby,to cancer aged 59 I’m lost don’t know what to do
Family are fantastic but it’s the hours I’m on my own that I really struggle
How am I meant to feel,
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Jayne91
I lost my husband 18 weeks ago to cancer honestly i feel worst i think at the beginning it was days weeks i last held him now i feels broken knowing it’s 18 weeks since i saw him i am really missing touching holding him it is soo lonely in the house phone calls stop text ask how i am when i say struggling and breakdown i think they think i should be better. Start a daily diary talk to your hubby put down your feelings it helps and just give in to the grief sorry you are in my position xx
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I’m sorry for your loss,
It’s exactly how I feel.
I will try the diary anything that helps
Thank u
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I lost my husband 3 weeks ago and it’s his funeral tomorrow. I’m 50 and he was 58. I don’t have any advice or answers I’m afraid. I’m just broken
So sorry for your loss, it’s only 3 weeks since I lost my darling husband to terminal cancer. He couldn’t talk about the diagnosis at all, so we never had those conversations. I’m completely broken and so alone. It was only me and him, and our cat. Take care
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Very sorry for your lost, Cancer is shit it’s been just over 4 weeks since my partner died to womb cancer she was 63 yea its when you get home and they are not there, the silence is sole destroying
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Peg2 It’s so shocking I know I lost my partner of 45 years together to terminal cancer, do you have any family that can help you
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Yes but they’re overbearing and some of them haven’t behaved very well. We always kept our distance so I’ll be continuing that. I have good friends and one of my sister’s is amazing. She’s been my rock from the first day Ray was ill. It’s a tough road to be on