Sorry, easier said than done
There is no do yourself “ in grief
I guess we will all find comfort in different things. Remembering how loved I was helps me.
Yes, I am sorry, I did not wish to cause offence. I am so relieved for you that knowing you were and are loved helps. I shall reflect upon. this again. I suppose I am thinking alternatively negatively that no one walking out there’ anymore choose me as the love of their life as my soul mate did
No need to apologise. I’d give everything to have my mum here in person loving me. That’s just simply not possible though so I’m trying to take comfort where I can. I do try to think what mum would say if she did reappear for a short time and I know she’d want me to try to be strong and not be sad. I try to remind myself of that but it’s not easy.
My sincere condolences to you on the loss of your Mum. Yes, to have our loved ones back if only for a short while and well; and have them tell us not to be sad and to live for them if living for ourselves seems near unfathomable. I wonder when the remembering with inward gentle smiles begins…