Dear All,
Did anyone ever struggle to process your loss.
I feel sorry I’m stuck, like I want to scream but can’t.
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Hi @AlysonandSteve ,
Thank you so much for sharing this with the community 
I’m sure someone will be along to offer their support, but I just wanted to let you know that you have been heard and you are not alone.
Take good care,
Sarah
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I think we are all struggling to process our loss. I know I struggle with it every day.
My loss doesn’t make sense and is unfair and I wish it wasn’t true but it is.
He is never coming back, I have lost my future with him but I still have a future, the world won’t stop for me or anyone else.
I will take each day as it comes and see where it ends up. That’s all I can do.
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Sometimes i feel like im in a dream and im gonna wake up and it was all one terrible nightmare 
but its not is it and if you wanna scream, scream xx
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Hi @AlysonandSteve
I’ve been thinking about this a lot lately. 11 months and I feel ‘stuck’ . But when I consider what I mean by stuck I realise I’m largely basing that on what society seems to be telling me whare I should be rather than where I think I should be.
So what if I still cry everyday, and still hope this is a just a bad dream? And what is the end point anyway? How will I know if I’ve procssed my grief properly? What will that feel like? What is it I’m aiming for.?
As @Deb5 says - scream. You’ve every right to. 
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