It’s been 16 months since Kevin died at 54, this week his cousin, who was more like his brother died suddenly, he was the same age more or less.
They grew up together and supported each other. He was a lovely guy.
I know the loss of Kevin hit him hard and he visited his resting place often. I am in bits and feel so sad, it’s like another link to Kevin has gone and his wife is obviously shattered, she has good support though everyone is reeling.
Life seems so unfair 
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My dear @MrsP1 - I am so sorry. This is a blow, and a bad one, on top of all you have been through. Maybe just as you were starting to feel a bit stronger, a bit better, too. Hold tight, be kind to yourself, my friend. Life does seem unfair - some people apparently sailing through life, no problems or sadness, while others go through it over and over again. The thing is, none of us escape loss like this at some time or another. I am a widow, too, of nearly 3 months. It is hard each day. I feel as though I am just walking through time, not living. Take care, keep going and maybe keep talking to Kevin about it - I tell T everything that is happening - I find that helps. Loads of love, x
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