Asking for help

Hi l recently joined this group, but l havent had any fed back to date, what am l doing wrong, many thanks

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Hello Paula

Welcome to this lovely group. Sorry to read you haven’t received any comments. I hope you are managing to cope, who have you lost in your life? This grief road is the worst feeling ever. With this time of year, it’s even tougher than normal. Even though it’s been 10 weeks for me since my dear husband Ray was taken from me at just 12 days after his 60th birthday. He spent 8 weeks in hospital and passed away on 17th October. He had advanced pancreatic cancer and I’m just so lost without him. It’s a terrible feeling being all alone now, the future is terrifying.

Do keep posting and reading here. We all know the dreadful feeling of loss. And apologies for not seeing g your original post. I hope it doesn’t put you off.

Take good care of yourself x

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Hi Paula, Sorry dont feel strong enough to give advice yet but im in the same situation as you. Only been a month since I lost my husband and I ache so badly. Feel so numb but hopefully there are many people who can give us both some good advice.

Take care xx

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Sorry I would just like to say that Im going to go to a bereavement group to see if that can help. Might be worth a try xx

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So sorry for your loss. Re-read your original post about losing your brother. Its wrong of your partner not to support and validate your feelings of grief towards the loss of your brother. You are feeling vulnerable and a secure partner would respect and provide you with some emotional security.

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