I feel the very same. 7 weeks tomorrow since my best friend in the whole world left and I’m just sobbing my heart out at his loss. He was my everything. The clutch on my car went yesterday and I had a meltdown over it, Ray would be the first person I’d call in a crisis and the realisation that’s he’s not here anymore really hit me badly. To never see him or hear his voice again is just too much to bear. Sorry it’s a really bad week for me too. Sorry for all of us here in this new nightmare life
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Hi peg 2
I know what you mean paul was my go.to guy and his nephew but they are both gone bought two new doorbells video ones and have no one to drill yhe wall for me and help.me get them sorted out wish i had listened to.paul and jason now on my own and dont know what to do
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Thank you very much 
I agree if only we knew for diffinate that we’d be together again. I stood at his grave today and said exactly that to him.
I do get scared when I read on here that people are still really struggling many years down the line. It has only been months for me.
None of us derserve this total nothingness, this torture. We just loved someone totally and this is our reward!
So well expressed. I sincerely hope that I can reunited with my wife somehow, somewhere one day.
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Well expressed sentiment. Gives me hope for the ultimate reconciliation
Sassychic,
I’m so sorry for your loss. I know it’s hard. My husband died of lung cancer in 2024. I miss him terribly but you are right. We will be reunited with our loved ones in Heaven in God’s time. I know that my husband is in Heaven as is my mother. In the Bible, Jesus stated, “I go to prepare a place for you.” and he did exactly that. It’s sad that we have to be without our loved ones but it helps to know that we will be with them eventually. What helped me the most was just praying to God and asking for his help to get me through this sad time. He has helped me a lot and I’m doing better now than I was a year ago. It also helps to read the Bible. It makes the reason for life and death more clear. I will say a prayer for you.
I wish you the best and have a Merry Christmas!
Snowy Evening
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