Hope you are soon feelin better Ron, there are so many different bugs going about again.
Hugs Jo xxx
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Lucy
Got here fine thanks & given lunch and a cuppa. Going out for tea. So glad I came up. Thanks Sandra for the encouragement.
Liz belated birthday wishes for last week & well done for coping with the first one 
Hope sun is shining for all and if not that this group is your sunshine
Siob
Xx oo
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Thankyou Siobhan
Have a good weekend.
Relax and be spoilt, you deserve it
X x
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Hope you’re ok, and that the day isn’t too painful. I won’t say Happy Birthday, as I know it won’t be happy, but I hope it will be peaceful.
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Good Afternoon i have managed to defrost and clean my freezer today. Gras daughter is having her hops done today, i hate the waiting for a phone call. Been feeling really guilty today as I cant get to her. Xxx
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Believe me I know that guilt. However much people tell you you shouldn’t feel guilty because it is just not possible for you the guilt does not go away or lessen.
I am sure you will give her all the support you are able to.
Hope call comes soon. Sure she will be fine. Just pray she is not in a ward like Jane.
Xx
Sandra
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Hope you’re feeling a little better now, Ron.
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Hiya sandra.
Its awful isnt it she told me this morning not to be silly as she understands how I suffer, but that doesnt stop the guilt.
Yes fingers crossed she as a better ward then poor Jane.
Fingers crossed Jane managed to get home today.
Hugs Jo xxx
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It seems like everyone is up and down today. Not feeling well, birthdays, traveling. In hospital. It can all be overwhelming. I wish you all hugs and peace.
I collected R’s ashes today. I thought I was ok. I have brought him into the living room. I have never cried so hard and so loud. I was like a wounded animal. The sorrow and sadness are just to much.
Maria
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Oh Maria……I really feel for you….
Getting the ashes back is so hard…bittersweet as you want them home but it really hits you that now their ashes is all you have…
I do get great comfort from having them with me now…… but it is a bit of a shock at first….
Sending you hugs x
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So sorry Maria
Its the finality and reality hitting you.
You will be ok.
Just let your pain and anguish out
Sending love and hugs
Liz x x
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I’m with you Maria.
You really don’t believe you can howl like an animal until you do it.
Mine was the day after my husbands funeral. I sounded so bad that people passing went to my neighbour to say there was someone in severe distress. It’s exhausting.
Hugs.
Xx
Sandra
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Thanks Kathy physically better,but up to my eyes in the swamp at the minute.xx
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It’s one of the hardest things we have to do. Sending hugs. xx
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So sorry, Ron. All our hands are here for you. xx
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Awww bless you Maria, i know how hard that is, when they brought Gras ashes home I cried so much I felt as if someone was squeezing the air out of my lungs. It hurt so bad.
Hugs Jo xxx
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Awww bless you Ron I feel most of us are there today, hold on tight and hopefully we will get out again real soon . Hugs jo xxxx
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Thanks Jo it’s gonna take some doing tonight.xx
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We have got this Ron we have done it before we can sure as hell do it again.
Holding your hand real tight. We have got this.
Hugs jo xxx
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Just a quick update,Jane has just got home and up to her eyes in it.xx
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