I lost my beloved husband almost a year ago, I’ve really struggled and feel I can’t go on without him.
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Hello @Boysie1,
I’m so sorry to hear about your husband. It sounds as though things are very difficult at the moment and you are struggling.
I’m sure someone will be along to offer their support. You might already be familiar with our other Online Bereavement Support services, but if not, you can find out more about bereavement support, Grief Kind Spaces, and our Grief Guide self-help tools by visiting the link.
Take care - keep reaching out,
Alex
@Boysie1
So sorry you are feeling so low. I think feeling like this as it approaches the anniversary is perfectly normal. I am just past a year and I had a period of about 6 weeks around the anniversary that I just shut down and felt awful. I felt I was going backwards and couldn’t reveal that to anyone around me in the real world, which made it worse. Life just seems to be a series of battles now.
I think we have to accept and trust that grief isn’t linear and that there will be better periods. I try and remember that my history with my husband has made me who I am and try and feel his strength inside me helping me to go forward at those moments when I can. Think of everything you have survived through in the last year and be proud of yourself.
Hello, I feel exactly the same, lost my soulmate 13 months ago, and it is not getting any easier. I miss everything about him, even the bickering as we were both of strong character. But I am now left weak and broken. It seems after the anniversary of his passing, it has got worse, as I tell myself he is never coming back. 