Hi all, ive just joined. 4 months since my husband died and nothing is getting any easier.
I cant even read everyone else’s posts as I just dissolve into a big wet, weeping puddle knowing just how everyone feels.
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Good morning, I am sorry you find yourself here. But it is such a place if support. It’s been 5 weeks since I lost my partner and I still feel as though I am sinking most days. But I’m told it’s natural and I need to hold on and keep going. I hope you find the support here useful, keep reaching out x
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Hi @MrsCarlos
Sorry to here of your loss.
It has been 6 months for me now.
Guess i try to keep busy during the day out to shops go for a walk. Joined a book club but that is only 1 evening once a month. Though maybe should read more as TV on but just background noise.
Tried line dancing and choir not bren for 3 weeks as was unwell. Maybe next year. I hate the long weekends and evenings. I dont like being on my own, hate the quiet no one to ask or get answer to my question problems eating alone sleeping alone
I guess i will have to get used to my own company but dont know when that will happen 
This forum is good as most people csn relate to how you are feeling as they have gone through or are going through similar.
I guess my advice is look after yourself and take it 1hr 1 day at a time however you feel shout cry 
just try to survive this horrible existence we now face.
Take care
Lynne x
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@MrsCarlos its so tough for us all.
I think reading other people’s posts, through tears in my case does sort of help. Others do understand how you feel and are going through the same things.
Please keep reading and posting
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