I was kind of adjusting to life without her then my 30 year old nephew died im March! We were also very close and I would see him at least once a week.
He was an absolute diamond and helped me wit gardening and housework.
Now im really struggling , my best friend, my rock, passed last week after a long and brave battle with cancer.
Im absolute devastated and feel so alone even though I have other family and friends.
I’m part of the Online Community team and I can see that you are new to the community - I’d like to thank you for bravely starting this thread and for trusting us with something so deeply personal. I’m so sorry to hear about the loss of your mum, your nephew, and most recently your best friend. Losing your mum to cancer, then your nephew so suddenly, and now your best friend after such a long and brave battle is an enormous amount of grief for one person to carry.
I just wanted to reach out and say how truly sorry I am that you’re going through so much. Experiencing multiple losses can feel incredibly heavy, and it’s completely understandable if you’re finding it hard to cope right now. Please know that you’re not alone in feeling this way.
Many people in our community have faced more than one bereavement, and while every experience is unique, there can be comfort in hearing from others who understand the exhaustion that can come with grieving more than one person. You might find it helpful to read through some of their posts here.
This community is here for you - whether you want to talk, ask questions, or simply be heard. You are not alone.
