Not been very good today I’ve been crying alot it’s going to be 9 months next week since I lost my dad I miss him so much I spent 51 years of my life with my dad since I was born I’ve recently had to start bereavement councelling again for the 2nd lot now Wednesday and Thursdays are my worst days now just felt so low today


Hi @David8,

Thank you so much for sharing this with the community :blue_heart: I’m sure someone will be along to offer their support, but I just wanted to let you know that you have been heard and you are not alone.

Take good care,

I really feel for you. Today i said goodbye to my amazing step dad whos been in my life for 31 years. Amazing Grandad to my two kids and just amazing man. I feel like since we were told 3 weeks ago he had cancer am looking in at my life as outsider.

Your Dad would hate to know you are struggling and i personally dont think they ever leave us. In body but they be with you always. I know how painful it is. I feel some days i cant breath as the pain is horrific. Its only been since 5th July that i lost my step dad but feels forever ago.
People keep telling me, take one day at a time.
Hope you have some support around you as this does really help.


I feel for you David I really do
My dad died just over 4 years ago now and I haven’t been the same since
It’s been hell and though I do overall feel ‘better’ than the early days, weeks and months, I know for certain I will always feel a heavy sadness and miss my dad everyday for the rest of my life
I still cry and I had counselling in the first few months but I really could do with more
Take care of yourself and keep coming on here to be amongst people who know how you feel in their own wayitchas helped me over the years especially as I have absolutely no one to talk to about my dad


Hugs to you dave

Thankyou everyone it means alot that I got u people behind me