Since my husband died my anxiety has become more severe. I find it difficult to cope. I have started to worry about death. How I might die. Will it be quick like my husband or will I linger in pain. I try not to think about it but it is easier said than done. I don’t know hot to stop worrying about it. I have ready that many on this site wish they had died with their OH and I did too but I can’t seem to stop the worry. I believe in God and have always had faith that I will see my husband again in heaven. It gives me comfort but at the moment death scares me. I know we all die but the unknown is scary. Does anyone else feel like this.
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Hi @Nel I don’t think about death but when it comes calling I’m not bothered as I’m not scared of dying. If my loved ones can do it so can I.x
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I would rather concentrate on life right now. Death comes to us all but I’m not giving it a special place in my thoughts and let it spoil any future enjoyment or happiness.
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@Nel
I can relate to what you are saying. I wonder if it is because we have come very close to death when we lost our lovely husbands. It is something we know about but don’t think about until it happens to us. Like you, I believe in God and know he will look after me until my time to reunite with Ron is here.
My faith did waver at first and I blamed God and was angry with him.
Please try not to worry and not to dwell on death, words are easy I know.
Sending love xx
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Alir.l can relate to you.my partner died from Pancreatic Cancer in November.like you.l believe l will be reunited with him again & l was angery with God in the beginning for taking him. as l missed him so much.but l know hes at peace & out of his pain now .l just take it a day at a time with Gods help.
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