I’m sorry to hear your pain. I hope you find some peace soon. The pain we have now is the reflection of how much love we have received. Many people go through life without it.
Wishing you all the best
Tom
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I have fired up the amp and got PIL on! My solace!
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Had so much grief and lost that I struggle to read about other people’s heartache. You are welcome to message anytime. The loneliness becomes a real issue and finding ourselves again..
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So sorry for your loss. I’m seven months into grieving after my partner’s sudden death and I’m not good. You are probably still in a state of shock. You have to give yourself time to grieve. There is no timeline, just live in the moment, the future will fall into place eventually. It’s good to have support, and friends and family can mean well. Don’t feel pressured by them though, you do what feels comfortable for you. If they haven’t lost a much loved partner they just don’t have a clue. I’ve a good friend who seems to think I should go on medication and I will be ok again! It’s extremely annoying. I was with my partner for almost forty years, our lives were intertwined and I miss him terribly. Some days I don’t even open the curtains. Take care.
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I’m so sorry for your loss especially finding your husband like that. My partner died suddenly seven months ago, I found him on the kitchen floor. Although I had a couple of friends I spent most of my time with my partner. We looked out for each other, and after he died I felt my heart had been ripped out, still do. Like you, most of my family and friends are couples so I feel like a misfit most of the time. I hate being alone and feel very vulnerable without him. I thought I was a strong person but I’m not. I’m trying not to think about the future. Take care and keep on posting, people on here understand.
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People want a,quick fix. There is nine except try find new things or people to help fill the gaps. No idea how though. For me it just kills time.
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Hi Domybest, I am sorry to hear you are unhappy. Do you still feel bad after seven years. It seems like such a long time to be suffering. How would you say your bereavement has changed over those years? Wishing you all the best
Tom
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I never cry but i have not been able to find work since my kids left home and I was always so busy.
The friends I had are all married, so don5 understand. I think I am frustrated and still feel part of me is missing. Here where I live there are young families, many elderly single ladies over eight and stay of refugees. I don’t know where I begin. So many things seem trivial.. for me the bigger picture is time spent with loved ones, conversations witj special friends and I would love to travel with someone but nit alone. Not in a position to do that right now. Still longing for direction and I suppose a sense of belonging again instead if just feeling like the off one out.