I’ve been having a lot of dreams. - death bodies coffins etc It’s two weeks tomorrow since he died but last night I dreamt we made a mistake - I walked in and there he was awake sitting up in bed healthy as anything and he was alive and my biggest worry was needing to cancel the funeral. That might be a little awkward.
how depressing to wake and discover I was wrong and he’s still dead.
I believe these are common dreams to have and while distressing in time I found them comforting as my husband was always smiling, dancing and fooling around saying it’s ok, I’m ok.
Morning @JoAndPaul
Sorry for your loss, and you have joined us on the journey none of us wanted to be on . In my early days of grief I had quite a few disturbing dreams about my husband. As the months have passed. I have had more comforting dreams. Look after yourself
It is true. I have been remarking on how young and healthy and happy he looked. I like to think that he’s saying don’t worry about me.
I’ve had this happen it’s almost 3 weeks since I lost my husband and I hadn’t dreamt at all since it happened, then a few nights ago, I had a dream where he just walked in the front door and told me it had all been a big mistake… when I woke up it felt so real and when the realisation hit he wasn’t there it really set me back, and I spent the whole day in bed crying, I loved seeing him in my dreams but it was so hard to regain control back after such a vivid dream
Hello, im still waiting to have a dream about my husband, telling me hes ok, but no such luck yet. I only dreamt about him when he was still in the hospital, he told me he was leaving because he didn’t want to burden me anymore 
I remember waking up crying. May God bless you all
Since my dearest husband died I’ve only had 2 dreams with him. He always had the red shirt that I had bought him in the beginning… It was so real that I wasn’t able to stop crying…
Janka
Hello Janka, I can’t find the post about the book, I saw it earlier, now I can’t find it. If you could please let me know the name of the book again. Thank you. God bless
Yay!! 
thank you Janka…God bless you, have a good night.
Thank you, I ordered one already, I cant wait, take care
I’ve found out how to easily go back to the post you’re looking for, just go into your profile and click on activity.., 
Dear Lucy, I’ve got this message of one friend of mine who saw me with my most beloved husband a few times when he was ill. It has put the tears of happiness into my eyes:
“Hey. no one can hurt you unless you let them. So, ignore them as if they don’t even exist, don’t allow others to upset you. They are not worth it. Look, you are a wonderful woman. Any woman that sacrifices what you have caring for your husband like you did !! THIS IS SO PRICELESS OF A GIFT!! Let those people who choose to be hate filled say what they want. It’s their sins in their lives that they will have to answer for. As for you my friend
I think the world of you!!”
Janka
Hello Janka, I just saw your message. So was this message from your friend comforting to you ? Or did it upset you? We are in such a delicate state of mind that sometimes people mean well and they just hurt us instead. I pray that wasn’t the case, but im here for you my friend, whatever you want to talk about . Please take care of yourself and may God bless you 
Dear Lucy,
yes, it was very comforting. That person lives near and when she will be back from a visit of her family, I’ll meet her. She is right now probably the only person who is really helping, even though on the phone. I need to find a lawyer, because it’ll be difficult to do it just by myself. I have to save my loving home and my whole existence…
Janka
Hello Janka, im glad you do have a good friend near you. We all need at least one good friend to be there for us.. And I hope you do find a good lawyer, . Are you looking for a lawyer for your home? ….i just want the best for you Janka, i worry about you, . If you ever need to talk im here. Take care of yourself and God bless you
My dear Lucy,
it’s so sweet of you! I have a name of a lawyer nearby. People say that he is very good and doing a probate stuff, so I plan to go there to ask him. I have another names too, so I’ll see. It depends on how much it’ll cost. After a year I’ve been getting to the point when I put everything to God’s hands. You know that nothing works without His help. Today was served a Mass for me. It was beautiful, I had the tears in my eyes, so emotional it was. I’m trying to keep the peace of mine and as well as my friend said not to let anybody upset me. Once you mentioned that you’re 59 y.o., if I remember well, and you asked me how old I am, I’m 51 y.o.
Hugs from Janka
Hello. Im glad your day went well Janka, im glad you’ll be getting the help you need. praise Jesus…. Im 57 . , ill be 58 next month, my husband would have also celebrated his 58th birthday too. God bless you
