Dreams

Losing a partner
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I lost my childhood sweetheart husband a month ago and he’s always been in my dreams until this happened - I’m wondering if my brain will allow me to dream of him again soon? Has anyone experienced this? Thank you :heart:

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Hi AprilLouise, I haven’t dreamt of my wife since she died on Christmas day. I don’t know why but I haven’t dreamt at all. It maybe due to waking up a lot and not sleeping profoundly. I am very sorry to hear about your husband. It is so recent for you. I hope you have plenty of support from family and friends. It must be so difficult having young children who are also suffering. I hope you find some solace here as everyone is suffering a bereavement and everyone understands.
Wishing you all the strength you need
All the best
Tom

:people_hugging::hugs:

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Thank you Tom, very sorry to hear about your wife too.

It’s so very painful and only been a month and I know I’m only at the beginning of a very painful journey that will change who I am forever. Life is just so unfair :broken_heart:

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Hello AprilLouise, my husband passed away 7 weeks ago, I would dream of my husband when he was alive, but I didn’t see him, in my dreams I’d be lost, and I’d be on my phone frantically trying to call my husband to come get me. Since his passing I haven’t had dreams like that. My subconscious mind knows that my husband isn’t here anymore :confused:, we don’t control our dreams, if we did I’d be dreaming about my husband every night. I’ve only dreamt about him 3 times and they’re over quickly.:pensive_face:

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Hello.

I’m so sorry you lost your husband too and still very raw for you too.

Harry would be in every one of my dreams, even if he wasn’t the main character he would somehow appear. It’s so strange how brains work isn’t it? I just really hope he’ll come back soon into them :broken_heart:

We’re so young and this has been such an awful shock to us all. We’d been together since we were 15 . If it wasn’t for our boys I don’t think I’d get out of bed at all, I’m so lost.

April x

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Hello April, yes its definitely hard being without my husband, we were married 35 years, we met when we were 19, I still remember, he was so young and cute :heart_eyes: the longest we were ever apart was 2 weeks, and only because I flew to Houston Texas to be with my new grand baby, I remember I couldn’t wait to get back home, I so loved being with my husband. He was the love of my life, and always will be. God bless

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Hello, I know its late for some of you, im in California, its 3:00 pm. I hope you all have a blessed good night, will be praying for all who are grieving theyre loved ones, may God bless you all. Good night

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Thank you, may God bless you, too!

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Hello Joe, im still considering getting that tattoo in honor of my husband :sweat_smile:

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I had a dream about my husband last night. It was strange, he was holding a little girl’s dress, it was a light peach colour and he was smiling and so happy.

We didn’t have children so I don’t know what it means at all. I did go to a medium years ago who said that you have a little girl waiting for you if you decide to have a baby. We never did, as we were happy together, just the two of us.

I’ve been thinking about it all day. I wonder is there a meaning to it, as he was really happy in this dream.

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Hello, that is certainly a beautiful dream. I strongly believe that this little girl is with your husband, like I believe that my husband in heaven is getting to meet any future grandchildren i may have, there is still hope with my son who’s getting married soon, I believe they’re are souls in heaven waiting to be born. God bless

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That’s beautiful :heart:

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Hello, I hardly slept last night, my bed looks as if my husband and I were both in it, the sheets all over the place. But I did dream once again of being lost, I hate those dreams, its always a different situation :pensive_face:, before my husband passed, and I’d have those dreams, I’d try calling him to come for me, and now I don’t do that in my dreams, I just wander aimlessly. I hate that, my husband was my protector, my guide, my everything, im so lonely and lost without him .

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Hello Lucy,

such dreams are horrible, sometimes one can’t even „shake them off“ after waking up

Most nights I can‘t recall my dreams, which isn’t that bad as quite often I’m dreaming absolute nonsense.

Just hang on in there and take care!

Kind regards - Joe

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Hello Joe, thank you. You know its hard when your life all of the sudden takes a complete turnaround, and not for the best. God bless , and take care as well

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