Feeling alone

Losing a partner
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Most days I feel so alone my main person my TJ who i shared everything with is gone I know i have my friends and family at all times but it just isnt the same :disappointed: I wish i had more time with him

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Hi @Laurab92

Thank you so much for sharing this with the community :blue_heart: I’m sure someone will be along to offer their support, but I just wanted to let you know that you have been heard and you are not alone.

Take good care,
Alex

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Hello, I know how you feel. I lost my husband in May this year and I can’t quite figure out who I am without him. I miss telling him little random things about my day. Things that are just not worth ringing or texting someone about. I miss the silly little jokes we had between us.
I’ve only just joined the community but saw your post and just wanted to say you are not alone but I really do understand your feelings of loneliness.

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Yeh feel alone myself … isnt it so awful :frowning: we lost our one person in our life who was always there and then here we are stuck by ourselves. I just wonder whats the point sometimes :frowning: xx

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Sorru to hear about your husband. Yeah it just isnt fair on us and TJ was only 33 we atill had are whole life together… and now his family have turned nasty on me and stopped talking to me so ive lost that connection :disappointed:

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I miss our silly jokes, too. We liked to kid each other about things and make each other laugh. We both had/have quirky senses of humor. Things like this really affect you.

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Totally understand, for me today has been a bad day for feeling alone.

Take care.

Sending a hug.

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Gosh I am so sorry. Losing someone at any age is tough. 33 is so young. My husband was 45. I feel cheated and robbed as I’m sure you do too.

Sending strength to you

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It is so hard reading your messages and knowing there are other people going through similar emotions and pain. Sending strength to you all x

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Sorry for your loss as well… yeah he died from cancer and so did my mother in law in june past

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Same here. My husband had lymphoma and went through two stem cell transplants. It’s a horrible, cruel disease and so unfair.

I am so sorry you’ve had to go through this with your mother in law too.

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Thank you. Hugs back to you as well x

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Sending a big hug

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Hi all,
I felt I wanted to check in and I really hope the week has been bearable x

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Thats nice of you :slight_smile: been bit of a rough week for me to put it mildly …
Struggled emotionally in so many ways. Its so hard not having your husband here to protect you. I really feel it some days … xx

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I am sorry to hear that. It is so tough. The word protect - that’s exactly it. He was my shield and I feel so vulnerable without him.

I really hope you find some time to smile with a good memory this weekend xx

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So sorry, big hug x

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Yeh i had a lovely weekend with my daughter and grandchild … just hare this being alone lark … going out to.oerow thank god ! Im just really bad with my own compsny. Im retired now and it can be really tough. Recently split up fron my boyfriend of a year … so really feeling rubbish atm x