Hi
I lost my wife on 21/3/26 and today has been the toughest day so far. I have filled my mind with all the jobs over the last week that needed doing but today just needed her for a chat,joke,kiss & cuddle but finally realised she wasn’t there. We have 3 young children so need to stay strong but don’t know how to fill the massive gap in my life. I have only joined this site today and would like to chat with people teethe same to see if we can help each other.
I’m here if you need to chat vent etc I feel your pain
Hi Collier
I am so sorry you lost your wife. I lost my husband over 8 months ago and have found this site so helpful. There are some amazing people here with lots of advice and some with young children like you. I hope they are along soon to share what has helped them to cope.
All of this is a nightmare we somehow have to get through. It really is true, take one day,hour or minute at a time. For now I’d say do only what you have to to look after yourself and your family, don’t think about the future if that’s possible.
I hope you have family and friends to support you, it really is good to talk x
Thank you
Thank you Helen. Sorry for your loss as you said take each day as it comes people say time is a healer but at the moment I can’t see that. I hope I can have good days ahead but the minute I wake up all I can think about is how can I ever be happy again. Going to try and keep myself busy today that seems to be the only thing that helps.
Thank you