Hi. Just found this group. I lost my big sister in December 22 and my brother in April 23. Im completely lost without them. Struggling to see any sparkle in life . Feel sick to my stomach. I just dont know how to get used to life without my best friends.
Welcome to the community! I’d like to thank you for bravely starting this thread and sharing how you are feeling with other members.
I’m so sorry to hear about your sister and your brother. Most members on here have sadly experienced the death of a loved one and so will understand some of what you are going through.
I’m sure someone will be along to offer their support, but I wanted to share a few Sue Ryder resources with you that might be helpful.
Our Grief Guide self-help platform which has information, resources and advice to help you through your grief
Our Grief Coach text service, which sends you personalised text support via SMS
Our free Online Bereavement Counselling which is held via video chat
Our Bereavement Information pages which can walk you through what you are going through.
Please know that you are not alone.
Keep talking and do take care of yourself,
Online Community Team
hi all i lost my brother last year and my mum the year before i am at a loss in what to do for the best i don’t even go out anymore
So sorry to hear you have lost both your brother and sister
Its such a lonely place to be but hopefully these groups n chats will in some way give you support
Take care of yourself x
i have lost my mum and brother Ali40
Sorry for the loss of your mum and brother such a difficult time for you its so hard to get support too
Hopefully you have got some support which you can slowly build on
thank you ali40
i even lost my only son which i was really gutted xxxx
I cannot begin to imagine the heartbreak you have gone through…have you reached out for support
i been recommended on here by a friend xx
Hopefully between here and your friends you will be able to start taking small steps forward
Hi I lost my twin sister in dec 2020 to breast cancer , im still lost as she was the one who organised everything Maria
So sorry to hear you lost your twin sister…it’s such a hard thing losing a brother/sister especially when you are close