My father passed away yesterday suddenly and I’m trying to get my head around what happens next.
We were very close and the one person that could help me was him.
I guess I’m reaching out for people in the same situation.
So sorry for your loss. I lost my mum 5 weeks ago and have gone through cycles of feeling numb, disbelief, sadness and pain. The best advice I’ve had on here is to take it day by day. Time has slowed right down and I find longer I’m without mum the harder it gets as reality sinks in. It’s all we can do though and I know it’s what my mum would want, however hard it is.
I am in the first throws of it hitting me.
Tommorow he would be walking through my front door to spend a few days with me.
I’m dreading being left alone.
I was due to see my mum 2 days after she died and that hit me hard. Don’t have siblings or a partner to support you?
Sorry for your loss … take each day as you can it’s still very raw for you have you got family to support you …. Thinking of you
I am fortunate in that my new girlfriend is being really supportive.
In terms of family well his family and I have never really gotten on so most if not all of it will be left to me.
I have been a rather dependant person in life and this is a huge wakeup call. I am getting some comfort in knowing there are people out there for whom this is their area of expertise.
I appreciate your messages…and I am sorry for your losses