Thanks for that Kate. Yes I can’t wait for my reading and will let you all know how it went. Like to leave you all with a quote I found :-
Your going to tell me this is no big deal, but let me tell you about being lonely. Humans are a social species, thy rely on connections to survive, even the most basic social interactions help keep us alive, statistics prove the subjective feeling of loneliness can increase the liklihood of premature death by 26%, so let’s keep in contact with everyone we know. Talking is good
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Talking is good Derek…x
So is writing…
Things are crazy at the moment, so much grief for a lot of us. Hard to believe life will be normal again. Never i think because we have lost so much but we are programed and expected to continue. I see couples walking about and do I envy them, course I do. That should be me and Sylvia. Can’t believe I’m so afraid and alone
Hi. Kate. Anyone who knows anything about mediumship will know there are many good mediums out there, most with much sincerity and knowledge. We do have to careful though because there are also many charlatans about who play on emotions. I have known many good mediums, and they are the ones who have good testimonials and reputations. It’s always best for them to be recommended if you can.
I have always believed contact is possible, and if it brings comfort to know that all is not lost forever then fine, why not. My wife was psychic, but she never talked about it except to those who would understand. She saw people who had passed as if they were sitting in the room. When as a child she tried to talk about this gift but she was put down and told ‘don’t be silly’ There is a book called ‘The Boy who saw True’. I think it’s still available on Amazon. One day he saw a funeral passing and asked who it was. ‘Uncle Fred’ came the answer. ‘That can’t be right’ he said, ‘because uncle Fred is walking by the hearse’. Because of ridicule and being taken to specialists so often because ‘there must be something wrong with him’, he gave up talking about his gift as a young man.
‘There are more things in heaven and earth that we can possibly know of’ to paraphrase Shakespeare.
I very much believe what we call ‘the end’ is never that.
Take care. Blessings. John.
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Thank you the John. The medium I visited was indeed recommended. You’re absolutely right, of course, there are many charlatans out there ready to pounce on the vulnerable. We become desparate in our grief so are easy prey. I hate that there are some ready to take advantage of us. Regardless of what others think and even if the medium is a fraud, if some comfort is gained well so be it.
Interesting your wife was psychic John. I might look for the book you mentioned on Kindle. xx
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Dear Heather_Diane, Thank you. I love your message. It gives me hope x
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I know I started this topic about being positive. I’ve had a lot of comments saying how strong and positive I am. Truth is I’m not. If a second spike came I am hoping I get it, rather than living without her. It’s so hard to live and survive on my own. Don’t get me wrong I wouldn’t do anything silly because it would upset family and friends. But it would feel like a blessing to join her in the afterlife. As the saying goes "Oh death were is your sting, Oh grave where is your victory ". Seriously that’s stupid but some days that’s how I feel. Here’s hoping that life will get easier. Good luck to you all x
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I truly understand where you are at… I so hard, I think my husband still around and he will be back soon… it’s a weird feeling… people who were calling me have gradually continued with their lives and I’ve noticed they arnt bothering like they did… i sit in the bathroom and shed my only tears for a few minutes without the kids knowing… I’m having to step up to keep money coming in as my partner was self employed and where we contract its same explanation to a different face every other day, where now I’m sort of ticking over then they stir things up again…
But please battle on for your self as she would want you to stay strong I know it’s easy to say and it comes down to yourself only to decide… but celebrate he life her happy days …go out for walks so your not stuck in the house with the emptiness of it… I know I rather be at work because as soon as I get home it’s like someone flicks a switch and we get sad and angry towards each other!!!
Anyway take care thinking of you x
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Thanks Rachel. I get what you’re saying and understand. It’s only been 3 months but it feels like yesterday. I know it will get better. I have the same thing about friends and family not keeping in touch. Only a couple still chat and offer comfort mainly my step son (Sylvia’s son) and his family. I see them regularly and im the childminder twice a week. Then there’s Sylvia’s sister and family who we Facetime on Saturday night and have a drink together. But it’s mostly the lonely nights. Thank you and take care x
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Ok here goes. Life has moved on and I’m still devastated over my loss. But I have been talking with a female in a similar situation and we get on really well. It will develop into a meeting and may progress into something more. I’m not getting any younger and don’t want to spend the rest of my life alone. I would appreciate any reaction good or bad on this situation. But please don’t judge me xx
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Hi I hope you find some happiness with your lady friend no one should judge you like you say your still devastated over your loss you may help each other I wish you happiness. I lost my husband 7 months ago and struggle most days it’s a vey lonely life even with family around
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Thanks Kim, life is so hard especially at the moment. Don’t get me wrong but moving on after a loss is very difficult and takes a lot of courage not only for yourself but your family and friends. There is a lot of judgment out there and I feel I need to overcome that for my happiness xx
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Wishing you well like you say there will always be a judgemental one you do what you need to do take care
Thanks Kim xx
Hi. Derekrb. Judge you? I am so very pleased for you. Comfort and love we all need, and if you have found it then congratulations. I hope all goes well for you. We all cope in our own way, and companionship is so important to us humans. Alas, we are sometimes very lonely and a friend who understands is more than welcome.
Good luck to you both and I sincerely hope the future begins to look a little more bearable. John.
Thanks John