Grief is overwhelming

My husband died suddenly is heart attack
Nearly eleven months ago l am finding it still very hard

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I am so sorry for your loss.
My husband also died suddenly almost six months ago and I too am finding it so hard. I wish i had something more positive to say other than you are not alone.
I am finding it impossible to look at the future without being overwhelmed with panic so I am just dealing with the day ahead and people have told me that this is okay. I think we have such high expectations of feeling a little bit better as time goes on but that hasn’t really been true for me. The reality is really hard to face so i’m just trying to be kind to myself, I hope you are too.
Best wishes
Emma

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Three months for me & I understand the panic. I just drag myself through everyday, it’s like a nightmare. Andrew had terminal cancer but the day he passed was so unexpected, no real warning, we were going to visit his Mum, I left him for the first time in 2 weeks & when I got back he had passed. I’m sure I’m still in shock.
Everyday just seems to get worse :woman_shrugging:

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Hi Johan it will be 2 years in November since my lovely partner Patrick passed away. Remember the song by John Denver. Some Days Are Diamonds Some Are Stones sums up my life . Mostly Stones but a few nice ones. Wishing you some Diamond days hugs Rambi

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I am so sorry for your loss. I lost my husband and soulmate so suddenly to a heart attack too, 2.5 years ago. I think of him every single days…miss him so much. Talking to him everyday has helped me so far.

Big hugs :hugs: :hugs:

Thank you for all your very kind words it helps with the situation