My mum passed away on the 20th of April and her funeral was on the 28th April ive lived with my mum all of my life im 55 year old and I don’t know how to cope
Lesley. So very sorry to hear of your recent loss.my situation is a reversal of yours my darling daughter sharryn past on in October last.we lived together all her life.she was fortysix years old.she was my everything my world.so l know what agonising purgatory you must be going through.its very hard to get through these harrowing days and nights without them. A heart wrenching void with out them.I send you a big hug and to not forget we all on here are going through hell.nonetheless I hope being on here and reading one another’s story’s may gig you some slight solace .Annette.xxx
Lesley - I am so sorry to hear that you lost your mum. I too lost my mum. She died on the 5th March this year. Since then I seem to be numb with shock. The loss is almost indescribable and I can’t bear to think about a future without her. I cared for her in the last few months after she was diagnosed with cancer and it broke my heart to see her decline.
If it is any very small help - the only thing that is helping me is going outside and getting fresh air and trying to spend time with other people. It doesn’t take the pain away - just makes it a little more bearable for a while.
This site is great - because you realise that there are people out there who are willing to listen and to care. Stay strong.