Guilt

14 years ago today i lost my baby boy, my first born. Last couple of weeks leading upto his angelversary have been a nightmare. Seems today everything has crashed down, my heads going 100mph.

I need help to try work my thoughts/feelings out. Please message me if you lost your first born, and then had more children.

I have noone to talk to

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I am so sorry for the loss of your baby boy, @Brandons_Mummy. He is beautiful, thank you for sharing this photo with us.

You are not alone. Many of our members have lost a child and will understand some of what you’re going through.

It sounds like you really want to talk to someone. I’m sure some of our members will be along to offer their support.

In the meantime, I’m not sure if you’ve heard of The Compassionate Friends, but they support families who have lost a child of any age. They have a grief companion scheme where you can get 1-1 support from another bereaved parent, which you may be interested in. You can call them on 0345 123 2304.

You can also contact Tommy’s support anyone with the loss of a baby. They have a helpline on 0800 0147 800 or email midwife@tommys.org. They also have a baby loss support Facebook group.

Take good care and keep reaching out,
Seaneen