Heartbreaking pain

Coping with bereavement
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Hello everyone,

I lost my Mum completely unexpectedly less than five weeks ago and the pain is crushing. I always knew that when the day came it would be difficult, but I never imagined this intense pain. I feel totally and utterly heartbroken. I went out with my Auntie yesterday and we sat in a cafe and I felt so utterly sad. I had to do all I could from breaking down in tears. I’m in my 40s and I just keep thinking back to school and those who lost their parents . How did they go on. I also think to those people I know who have lost their children and I have no idea how they have got through this. At this moment in time I feel as though I will never be happy again. I’m so sorry for everyone’s loss.

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I lost my mum suddenly 4 weeks ago yesterday and I completely understand how you are feeling. So sorry for your loss. Here if you need to talk xxx

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Oh I am so sorry for your loss. Although people tell me it will get easier, at the moment it doesn’t feel like it will. Such a sad time for us both.

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I lost my mum a yr today it feels so raw it does get easier but the pain is always there I talk to my mum which helps sending warm hugs x

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I’m so sorry for your loss on this difficult day for you. I hope your lovely memories will bring some comfort.