I feel the heart an soul of my home has been torn from me since my wife died just before Christmas 21.
just no warmth in it when my daughter or other family members drop in. I think when a Mother or Granny is not in the house the whole atmosphere changes until they arrive back in again.
In our circumstance that is not going to happen.
Anyone else feel the same.
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I’m so sorry for your loss, it’s hard when one part of you is missing and home suddenly feels a strange place. It’s lonely, the love and laughter has suddenly gone.
If I had gone first I know my husband would have struggled on this own, this was always his fear bring left on his own.
I can understand how your struggling. I have no answer for you of how to make it better. Keeping your children and grandchildren close will help ease the pain. It’s never going to be easy.
Take care, Debbie X 
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Hi. Im sorry for your loss…my dad passed away in February. Im staying with my mum.The house is just not the same without him.The same house i grew up in and the house they both lived in together for over 40 years .i cant imagine how you feel as they are your feelings. BUT my mum said she wants to move now he has gone. The house seems no empty and a light has gone out in the house … yes it will feel like just a house as a big part of that house you live in has gone . Try to remember the good times and all those happy memories you both shared and made together…I wish i could say more to you .
.ill send my hugs for now .Take care
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Yes since my mother passed away in November, going to her property (which is now mine) feels very sad and cold and empty.
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Death is so final and when I really think about it scary because we do it alone. My husband will be waiting to meet me when it’s my turn. It’s so hard to accept that one day our lives are routine and normal and we don’t know what is before us the following day. If we did we would be terrified. Some days I still can’t accept what happened and that my H is not here. It hits so much my brain cannot accept it. Sending hugs x
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