Good Morning Everyone
Lovely start to the day weather wise.
Today I’m on childminding duties so that’ll be a lot of snacks, drinks, play, mess. Might have to get her in the garden sweeping leaves n a spade to dig with..
Hope we all manage a good day.
Morning everyone,
Take care.
Hi San8,
Like people say, you are not stupid. Grief takes you all over the place. We forget stuff, put things in daft places. Somedays just getting up and having a drink or something to eat is a win.
Take care
San8
You won’t get better advice…no that’s wrong you won’t get better understanding of your situation than the people on this forum as they are all going through the same situation you now find yourself in everyone a little different in how they deal with it and how long they have been doing so but the support is fantastic you never need to feel alone just post and someone usually answers ,so sorry for your loss just be patient and kind with yourself I myself think it’s the hardest thing I have ever had to deal with in my life at the spritely age of 163 sorry 63 the first number is how old I feel at times but it’s 15 weeks for me I have started finding my feet again although it’s not consistent it is changing and there is hope
Exactly how i feel
One min i feeling like im putting one foot infront of other.the next i cant move
Always been the tough strong one ,friends and family all say if it was me who died he wouldnt have coped… truth is im not copping and feel so lonely .this is a completely new me .been telling myself to shake myself but feel comfort reading here that others posting here have felt same .this morning have ate my first breakfast .normally food is something i cant be bothered with iv lost 3 stone since he died .but feeling better reading here ..thank you
This journey is a roller coaster. Twists and turns ups abd and downs you just have to hang on for dear life and ride it out.
I am nearly 2yrs down the line and am quite positive at the moment go back a couple of mths and I was literally on the floor sobbing. It catches you unaware but just keep going and if you need to cry jyst do it.
Michelle x
Morning everyone,
grief is definitely an unpredictable rollercoaster.
It is also affected by so many things that can’t be imagined before it happens to you.
Sending big hugs.
Heartbroken 12
Says it all doesn’t it
Hello everyone,it’s 7:55pm ,the day has ended, though someone threw a stone at me (society stigma hate) and hit my leg ofcourse i cried picked myself up and came home, there’re places that dwell under pure EVIL.
people who were born elsewhere in world don’t know how blessed they are. 
Enjoy..
Night night everyone
GOODMORNING EVERYONE
IT’S ANOTHER BEAUTIFUL DAY TO TRY LIVING A HAPPY LIFE AGAIN
GOOD DAY
Good Morning from an extremely blustery Littleborough…
It’s horrible out there and it’s bin day so they’re all over the place..
Swept leaves yesterday and now worse than ever..
Try and have a good day
You all have a good day too.
My eldest daughter’s first birthday (43rd) without her dad (her hero) so it will be a really emotional day especially for her. 
Take care everyone 
Morning all what a terrible day.
Take care x
Morning everyone,
Take care.
And a good morning to everyone from lovely Yorkshire it’s teeming down but it’s just the weather for once not me so it’s a good start to the day and I seem to be having more of these now than the other ones hope you all make the best of today and find something cheery to do
That’s good news about the house and fingers crossed they make an offer and sell their house soon.
I am so sorry for your loss I my wife so suddenly while we where away for wedding anniversary 26weeks ago we went to the place where we got married my wife passed away so suddenly with a pulmonary embolism I cry every day I hate this life we are all in I am all alone in our forever home and it’s so so hard
