My mum died in January. Completely unexpected, she went to bed fine and I found her the next morning. It has been so hard, I had to have a major op and had and now cured of cancer. I really could have done with her there.
She was my only family and I was her carer. We were incredibly close and I am so lonely without her, I miss all the in jokes we had and the funny times we shared that just hurt to think about.
I’ve been plowing on but I saw something on the TV that has put in my head when I found her and that horrible day and I’m finding it hard to process.
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I am so sorry for your loss, it’s not something you will process easily as so quick, that’s going to take sometime to get your head around. I still “,yap” to Mum, you do what’s right for you, and to add my Mum died of Sepsis she didn’t even know who I was xxxx
Hi,
So sorry for your loss,i lost my Mum coming up to 4 years the end of August and i have ok days and bad days,nowhere near the person i used to feel with my Mum here,also i lost my Dad 2 years ago and have little family,just my 14 year old son. Battling an on-going illness without the one person here who understood is just awful and lonely. Most of the time,just relieved for bedtime to arrive. I thought after 4 years i’d feel a lot better but i don’t. Thoughts with you,Lucy,xxx
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Dear,
Anne,
Your welcome to message me anytime for a chat/support,and comfort,looking for the same thing,i find the mornings are the worst,and then you get to the end of another day. It is very difficult,thinking of you,Lucy,xxx
Hi,
Anne3,
Just battling through each day,have some chores i have to do etc. Life is just different now,i wish i could just pop and see my Mum,as she only used to live around 15 minutes from me. It’s the little things like that i miss my Dad just as much,also in January of this year,the family dog passed away,Jessie was being looked after by my Auntie,as i live in a 2nd floor flat,and my Dad became too ill to look after her,before he passed away. Just heat breaking Anne. I have been battling severe anxiety/depression for 9 years this June,i am too unwell to work because of it. As you can imagine,my Mum and Dad really understood my illness,my Mum suffered with an illness most of her life. So i find it is doubly difficult without my Mum here. I fee my Mum around me spiritual,but it’s not the same. Thinking of you,Lucy,xxx
Anne,
I was thinking it would be nice to maybe meet up if you feel up to it,when the weather
gets warmer,for a drink? I live in Wolverhampton,and could meet you half way. Lucy,xxx
Hi,
Anne,
I totally understand,i’m quite isolated,and don’t have that much family around me,just my 14 year old son to be honest. Maybe in the future if i felt up to it,and got to know you better,i could get the train and come and see you? no pressure. Do you believe in mediums?,i have seem quite a few,but everything they say,not all of it comes true. I believe my Mum is around me,as sayings come into my head like: ‘‘my beautiful Daughter,etc.’’ A few times in my home,especially at night,it has felt like someone is stroking my hair/shoulder,etc,which brings some comfort. Hope your day goes the best it can,Lucy,xxx