@Deb5 you are right in saying kindness is in short supply these days . I would never have believed it , but it’s true . I think to be unkind to a grieving person is possibly the worst thing ever . Simply because out of all of life’s problems, death is the only one that is permanent and can’t be changed. I can’t think of any other difficulty that can’t be overcome with tolerance , kindness and understanding, but death is final . You’re cruel to a grieving person then you know their situation can never be put right . That , in my opinion is totally unforgivable.
My life lesson here is trying to be kind - it’s not too much to expect us it xxx
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Its not negative hun, its how we feel, I lost my husband of 30 years a few months ago very suddenly, there’s not a day that goes by when I don’t wish I was with him, even though I have children, the first few weeks I had very dark thoughts, thankfully my family and friends have been amazing, which has helped dull those thoughts, wishing you the best, we don’t go through it we grow through it, you’re doing so every day x
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I went through the same as you. Some days I wish I was with him. People tell me it will get easier. X
I think we all go through those dull thoughts I also did and 9 months on I’m still struggling although I have my family I’m finding it so hard but this forum certainly helps
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