I’m lost

Losing a partner
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I lost my husband in July after 55 years of marriage and I feel so lost

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Im so sorry for your loss. Life is cruel at times. I lost my husband in nov and feel the same. We had been married for 33 years. Im really struggling to do anything. Just try to take it day by day and dont push yourself too much or feel guilty for not coping. I feel so lonely but this site has made me realise i’m not alone and there is lots of support and advice. Look after yourself.

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Thank you so much for replying. I wasn’t sure if I was still alone. I’m so sorry for your loss and pain.

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You’re not alone, unfortunately there are too many of us in this horrid nightmare. Keep posting on her, its a great support xx

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I’m very worried about dumping on my kids all the time. After all they’ve lost their dad and grieving as much as I am. They’ve been a great support to me and I will be forever grateful but there are things I can’t talk to them about.
New Year’s Eve was worse than Christmas for me because I felt I was leaving him behind and the pain is too much to even think about it.

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This site has really helped me. I lost my Keef in February last year so it’s now coming up to a year without him. I too found New Year a lot more difficult than Christmas, plus I’ve also just got through my first birthday without him, yesterday, since 1979. People on this site understand what we are having to deal with and I have found it so very helpful at times when I’ve been at my lowest place. Take care and continue to post your feelings on here as we all understand how hard everything is. Gail xx

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Hi , did you do anything on your birthday? Mine is nx week will also be the first without David for 45 years my family asking me what I want to do but really don’t know any advice :heart:

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Guineapig65 i can totally understand how you feel as i lost my gorgeous beautiful late wife sue on the 1st February last year and I feel so lost without sue .my daughter stepson and family are really supportive but I feel so alone. This site is a huge help to me .martyn