Hi all,im really struggling with losing my dad. Not sleeping alot, appetite has gone, feeling so negative. I have mental health problems too.depression and anxiety based. My sister is completely blaming me for losing our dad, but she never visited the month dad was in hospital as she was caring for my mum with dementia., we all offered to stay with my mum while she went to see dad, but only on the day he passed she went to see him. I am really struggling with my no emotions,only bad thoughts and my sister blaming me and my daughters for allowing hospitals treatment of dad. I feel it wasnt his time,as he had COPD but got pnemonia the flu and had to have ng tube for feeding but wouldnt keep it in. My sister says he should of had drinks,but he was aspirating on everything that went in orally. I tried my hardest to fight my dads corner and was there 95%of the time. I feel so sad and numb still, i dont know what to do. I am doing complaint to hospital as there care was terrible, but thats not the answer.
Hi @Kimmy69 ,
Thank you so much for sharing this with the community 
Iām sure someone will be along to offer their support, but I just wanted to let you know that you have been heard and you are not alone.
Take good care,
Alex
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