I do not know how to get this out the last few days have been unbearable. My eyes are sore and swollen I was breaking down every day. But the last few days the crying has become much worse I nearly collapse on the floor I can’t breathe this pain is getting worse. Losing mum and dad is the worse pain in the world I am waiting for grief counselling I can’t do this on my own.
It’s probably of little consolation but you’re not on your own here as unfortunately although everyone’s grieving is different we can probably all relate and empathise as I know I definitely can.
I thought I had my grief controlled to an extent but lately it’s been every day crying and I look now so crap and exhausted I’m embarrassed to go out.
I’m sorry if you have said in another post but how long ago is it you lost your mum and dad?
Anything you say will be treated with empathy and respect and sending you blessings during these hideous hard times
Hi Katie I lost my daughter in October am still waiting for my grife counciling, it’s so hard getting though everyday I cry all the time I feel like my life stopped when Amy’s did would do anything to get her back sending you hugs and support xx
I can understand your pain. I’m in a bad state ever since my mom passed away 3 weeks ago suddenly and unexpectedly to cardiac arrest. She was only 58. I am not functioning much. Just realized I haven’t brushed my teeth for 2 days. I am broken and devastated. This is the worst pain possible. I know what you are going through. It’s a difficult and impossible to cope situation.
Everyone on their group is going through something similar. I spend almost all day here. Talking helps. Please keep opening your heart and people will help you walk through this phase.
I lost my dad on December 15th 2021and I lost mum on January 2nd 2022.
Oh Kate words can’t express how sorry I am for you. I am struggling with just losing my mum so you must be such a strong lady even if you don’t feel it just now.
Keep posting as it does help a little to know what you feel is ‘normal’ and we’re all here for you
Thank you all so much for your kind words and support we are all dealing with this pain it means a lot to me to know someone cares kate xxx