I lost my mom on the 27th april, it was the week before my wedding.
Mom had been ill but not too bad, then she went downhill fast. It was heartbreaking her not being with me on our special day.
My partner is fantastic and she supports me brilliantly but i miss my mom so much.
Mom was 93 when she past i am 62, and to have her in my life for so long was such a blessing, but it also leaves a massive hole in your life when they go. Feel so down some days. When i am alone at home i just sit and cry.
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Hello @Phill1,
I’m part of the Online Community team and I can see that you are new to the community - I’d like to thank you for bravely starting this thread and sharing how you are feeling so down. I’m so sorry to hear about your mom. Most community members have sadly experienced the death of a loved one and so will understand some of what you are going through.
I’m sure someone will be along to offer their support. In the meantime, you may wish to look at these Sue Ryder resources which might be helpful.
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Our Grief Guide self-help platform which has information, resources and advice to help you through your grief
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Our Bereavement Information pages which can walk you through what you are going through.
You might also want to read Losing a parent - coping with the death of a parent | Sue Ryder
I really hope you find the community helpful and a good source of support and I also hope you feel you can access more support should you need it.
Thank you again for sharing – please keep reaching out and know that you are not alone.
Take care,
Alex