Hi. I’m totally new to all of this but I post my mum when she was on holiday in Cyprus nearly 3yrs ago and I’m still grieving and then my dad suddenly passed away last week. I never got to say goodbye to my mum but I did with my dad but it was awful watching him in his final moments and I’m struggling. I can’t sleep or eat but I’m trying to keep busy as much as I can. My two boys have been amazing but it’s hard and I’m just crying and feel like I can’t breathe at times
Babe I seen my mom die it still traumatises me but I wouldn’t of been anywhere else , holding her hand kissing her telling her she is beautiful, death is so final, then we have to say good bye, the struggle will get easier but it will never go fully, been 10 months my mom and now im back to day 1 the pain, all we can do is pray and try to move forward, you will get better u will feel better but u will never be the same , but u will smile again one day , but that pain will always be there but u will find a way through the pain ,im sorry u are hurting reach out if u want to talk xx
Thank you..feel like I’m back to day 1 with just my mum then my dad suddenly going has just brought me to a standstill. Watching him in his final moments has floored me. We are still waiting on whether the coroner wants to do a post mortem but me and my brothers know what happened with the help of the medical staff and police which we can’t thank enough (they were amazing) know what happened but it’s just waiting again now to see what the head coroner says. One thing I will take away from this is I got to say goodbye which I never did with my mum and it still hurts
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