Hi. I lost my Dad to lung cancer 3 months ago. I feel lost if I’m honest. I’m struggling to put into words how I feel as I’m just numb. I was lucky to be with him when he passed and it was very peaceful but I can’t get my head around the fact I’ll never speak to him again. He fought so hard and wasn’t ready to go. I miss him so, so much.
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Hello @Aneka ,
I’m so sorry to hear about your dad. It sounds as though things are a struggle at the moment and you are feeling numb and lost without him.
I’m glad that you’ve been able to share how you are feeling here and I hope that you find the community a good source of support. Everyone here has experienced the loss of a loved one and will understand some of what you are going through.
I’m sure someone will be along to offer their support, but I wanted to share a few Sue Ryder resources with you that may help you right now.
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Our Grief Guide self-help platform which has information, resources and advice to help you through your grief
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Our Grief Coach text service, which sends you personalised text support via SMS
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Our free Online Bereavement Counselling which is held via video chat
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Our Bereavement Information pages which can walk you through what you are going through.
Take care - keep reaching out,
Alex
Hi @Aneka im so sorry for the loss of your dad, my heart really does go out to you 
i can really relate to what you have said, i lost my dad 6 years ago to lung cancer, just know that your not alone we are all here for you, sending you a hug Lorraine xxx
Hey I lost my dad just 5 months ago still feels like yesterday was sudden and didn’t look peaceful. I feel the same as you and don’t understand how everyone can just carry on with life.
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