Hi everybody
This is a hard day for me and i suppose for everyone on this day valentines day 17 yrs ago we moved into our lovely bungalow i remember it so well my dad and stepmum where here helping and we got told off when we went to bed for talking that was what i was like miss chatty and i.still am and i miss my husband today its been a hard day and i do not care.if it has been 5 mins 5months or 5 yrs as its been 5yrs for me it all is the same we all feel the same we all miss them and i know that i am this nice person who has a loving caring side to her and if people on here find me to chatty you do not need to talk to me it is people on here that talk to me and say your to chatty well do not chat to me then its not.my problem its yours and i do not need to be hurt anymore than i am i just want people who want to.talk to me and you will find this loving caring kind person who will try to.help you throigh this i will never stop loving my husband nor will i ever forget him he is in my.heart all of the time
Sarah
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Hi Sassychic, love the codename. I didn’t really think of mine properly. You sound in turmoil today. Which I am so sorry to hear. I’m 2 and a half yrs in being a widow and sounds like your 5. Im sorry for your loss. You miss him so much and life is cruel. I wish I could say something to alleviate your pain. But we both know we can’t only that we both understand the anguish, pain and loss. Tomorrow is a new day but also another day without them. I hear you and understand. Sending you a big hug and genuinely I dont care how much you chat. Xx
Hi lost and lonely
I do miss my husband very much but people think i should be over it but this is something you never get over you just have to try and be brave but i have yaken a battering since last september and that is also very painful thank you for liking my codename that has made me smile through all of this are you really sure you dont mind me bieng chatty as i have been told it is annoyong and i dont mean ti be annoying honest i dont
Sassychic
Sarah
Hi Sassychic,
There is no time limit on getting over loss. Sometimes you never do and people just have to accept that. My dad died when I was 16, the grief didnt lift until my sister died 23 yrs later. Then my husband died in 2023. There is no time limit and the people who don’t understand are the ones who have not lost young people in there lives. You grieve as long as you need to.
I don’t mind chatty people because I’m chatty too. Talking about things helps. You wanna chat anytime then talk to me. Its fine, we are all here to help each other and im goid with that my friend. Xx
Sassychic
Don’t ever think you talk too much. You express everything you’re feeling and that can only be good. I lost my husband Nov 2025 and I do understand and feel how very hard this grief storm is. Don’t ever feel you are alone in this horrible time. Big hug 