Losing my husband

Losing a partner
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Hi

Just having another bad day got into a panic attack again all.because of a silly car accident in 2022 and the claim is still going on and now they want me to have another medical because of my panic attacks which started after the accident I am so fed up with all of this will there ever be a day where I wake up and everything’s OK for me I doubt it very much it has made me want to jump in my car and just drive away any where just somewhere where nobody knows me but i know that will change nothing as the pain that I feel.will still be there even if I go toy stepmums she lives in lockerbie nothing changes she just wants to stay in and watch the telly might as well be at home as she just does not understand how many people I have lost and how alone I feel

Swwetlady

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It is really difficult for relatives and friends to understand the loss of a partner unless they’ve lost that person themselves. Most people are sympathetic but don’t really get it. I don’t know what kind of relationship you have with your step mum, but if she’s amenable to your staying overnight it would be a change of scenery. It’s a nice part of the country so the drive might be helpful, get you out of the house.