Losing my husband

Hi everybody

Thank you for your lovely messages about my weekend away i was so up set by on person on here as i have been nothing but kind to people in here this person got in my head and made me think as i was told they did not like me talking about my husband but they wanted to talk about there partner i thought this site was to help people not criticise me for my grief this person got in my head and ruined my weekend away as all i wanted was my husband there to hold me and i new that was not possible :broken_heart: i just think people should think before they speak or write as after all we are all grieving on here whether it be days months or years we all feel the same way so all i ask is a bit of compassion i do not think that is much to ask
Sweetlady

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Hi Sweetlady, so sorry that someone upset you…hopefully they didn’t mean to..and you’re right , were all missing our departed loved ones, no matter how long they’ve been gone, we will always miss them, because we loved them so very much…take care..have a good night..

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Dear Sarah

I think sometimes we say things here that are meant well but come across to others as criticism. I know because I upset someone once and really didn’t mean too. I was upset myself that they had taken it the wrong way. I’m more careful now.

We really are here for each other. Keep talking, it’s what keeps all going x

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Well said.

Go gentle Sarah.

Love and hugs xx

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Sometimes I know I post before I have checked!

I am using the excuse that I have widows brain!

Got to have some excuse for seeming un caring or short to others.

But I am dim but nice! I know that. I wouldn’t want to purposely hurt or offend anyone when they are on their knees!

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Hi Sarah good to hear from you and sorry someone hurt you . 5 years for you 3 years for me doasnt matter how long its been it the love for that person doasnt stop when they died it carries on we just learn somehow to live with it alittle better .xxx

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