Losing my mum at Christmas same as my dad

I really am struggling so bad I’m agrophobic also and losing mum like I did dad at Christmas time is just so heartbreaking I’m not coping please help …x

Hi. Sorry for your loss…this will have brought back sad memories. It’s early days for you…take it steady and just do what you can and when you can. Maybe talking to someone who can support you would help. Reading and posting on this site people find comforting…I hope it will be the same for you. Best wishes.

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mine are gone. I know how you feel. fall apart, if you must, but let each day pass and let time take over. it is all that you can do.

I went through it all, even thoughts of suicide. but I am still here, 2.5 years later.

it is bad. very bad. but let yourself grieve and do not listen to others. only yourself. they don’t know what you need. you do.

Thankyou for your kind words but I’m struggling with mental health also which makes things a lot worse … all I want to do is sleep x

I really understand suicidal thoughts as I feel so alone … and what makes it worse is my partner won’t let me grieve he’s so selfish and he drinks a lot and I don’t know what to do x

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Hi I lost my mum on 16th December 2018 it was my birthday now a year on I am still grieving but I am learning to cope and do some normal things them first few months are hard when my mum died I lost my job because I was a carer for her to and we lived together but things will get a little easier in time and hi will laugh again it just takes time jage