Losing my mumma

Hi everyone,
My mum was diagnosed woth pan reatic cancer in December 2022, sadly in january 2023 she passed! I apsolutley adore my mum and miss her so much, the 3 x daily video chats, her coming to stsy for few days. I just miss everytho g about her. My heart feels so broken bit i leep going for my children and husband. It just seems thos grieving gets harder not easier. How does everyone cope xx


Hello Stormcloud,

I’m part of the Online Community team and I can see that you are new to the community - I’d like to thank you for bravely starting this thread and sharing how you are feeling. I’m so sorry to hear about your mum’s illness and passing earlier this year. Most community members have sadly experienced the death of a loved one and so will understand some of what you are going through.

I’m sure someone will be along to offer their support, but I wanted to share a few Sue Ryder resources with you that might be helpful.

I really hope you find the community helpful and a good source of support and I also hope you feel you can access more support should you need it.

Thank you again for sharing – please keep reaching out and know that you are not alone.

Take care,


Hi read your post I lost my mum dec 2021 so I no how you fell . Daily live does gets a bit easier but the pain is still their I didn’t think it ever goes away you find ways of dealing with it I felt a lot of guilt when mum died because I was looking after her I still do sometimes I say to myself would mum still be here if I wasn’t looking after her . Then I say to myself what would mum say to me you just got to learn to smile again and keep busy