I lost my Soulmate,the love of my life on 17/7/23 it was sudden&unexpected,he was only 51.I’m really struggling with the overwhelming loss&devastation.My heart is broken-life without him by my side is just unbearable-I feel absolutely lost&totally alone.I try my best to get through each day but the tears just constantly flow-I literally ache for him .So scared that I’m sliding deeper into a pit of despair &that I’ll never get back up again.
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My condoIences. I understand what you are going through. I lost my dear husband a week before you. It’s a struggle but I’m trying to get through one day at a time.
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I’m sorry for your loss & sad that you find yourself in this horrible club we’re in.
Take your time & do what feels right.
My husband died age 58 on 3rd July
I feel your pain x
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Sorry for your loss.Its so hard isn’t it?i just feel like i’m wandering around in a daze in some kind of limbo land where i no longer have a place.
Sorry for your loss.Thank you for your kind words-its nice to talk to people who truly understand how i feel.x
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Keep talking here
It does help
I’m actually surprised just how many people are in the same position in terms of losing a partner in their 50’s!
It’s sad, it’s shocking & it’s heart breaking
Xx
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Its shocking-too many good people getting taken way too soon,its all i’ve heard this year,stupidly i never expected it to happen to me x
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Likewise
I thought we had our lifetimes
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We were only together 8 years but we had so many plans.I feel so angry that I’ve been robbed of a future &desperately sad that we didn’t have more time.Life is so cruel x
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It’s unbelievably cruel
The good ones get taken far too soon x
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Sorry for your loss i lost my husband 21st july so not long ago 
we was together for 24 years im 48 it was sudden he was 54 we had so many dreams plans life is cruel keep talking it helps xx
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I’m so sorry for your loss.I’m guessing you are still in the raw,numb state of shock like I am?Stumbled accross this site in the hope that talking to other people who completely understand how it feels might help me as i hope it does for you too x
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Its so hard to look ahead and see a future at the minute i feel so angry but been told this is normal. Hate this world right now 
xx
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Thats exactly how i feel too,i feel so angry that i’ve been robbed of a future.Trying my best to just get through each day,i can’t think about anything beyond that.Everyday without him by my side is getting harder&harder 
xx
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Yes im angry feel like i need to blame someone for taking him away from me why do all the best people go ? I dont get it at all its messed up we have all been robbed of our futures with our lovely soul mates xx
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I’ll never accept it-like you said too many good,young people who had everything to live for are being taken way before their time,its just not right.I keep replaying the night he passed over&over again,wondering if i could’ve /should’ve/would’ve have been able to do anything to prevent what happened &beating myself up every single day for not being with him when he passed-i got to hospital 5 mins too late ,that hurts more than anything 
xxx
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But you will always love him you know that, like I lost a women from the U.S in Aug only 52-3, shes gone now but I’ll always love her, I’m from UK 2gether 6-5 years was planing to see her soon too, she was taken from me
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So sorry for your loss.You are so right-i will love him &miss him for the rest of my days until we meet again.We were soulmates,kindred spirits&twin flames who adored each other.I know how much he loved me too-i’m still finding love notes all around the house that he had written me &i’m sure he meant for me to find after he was gone.I guess we have to hold on to the love,the memories &just be thankful for the love &happiness that they gave us x
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There is a U.S web site where you can have some thing made like a dog tag with his picture and words on the other side of it, I did for my lost, we knew each other well, chated every day on like the only thing that killed it for me was the distant, she was in Florida I in London, but her love for me was strong even thought we both lived far, it only when she died did I really realise how much I loved her, it hit me like a bomb, I’m not the same as I was before I met her, she meant the world to me and I was not sure 100% why , know I know why
I have just had a tribute tattoo for him&have another 3 planned&i’m getting a ring made with his ashes too so i’ll always have him with me everywhere I go,i also want a necklace made with his actual handwriting-i have found some great websites that do this.Your story is heartbreaking.We met online 8 yrs ago &had a whirlwind romance-we moved in together after being together for 6 months-we were both in different parts of the UK,i moved here to be with him but now hes gone i don’t want to stay here.Not sure where my future lies its too early to think about that.Be kind to yourself&hold on to the good memories-no one can take them from you x
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