i lost my wife after one week of marriage i have no words for how i feel
empty depressed lonely feelings of not wanting to continue with life
feeling angry with medical personnel and doctors that could
of done more for her hatred towards people involved that could of made that
difference for my wife that would of still been here with me
i dont know how i will get through this but i will have to wait to see what
the inquest says in a few weeks my heart goes out to all of you losing someone
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Hi I hope you get some answers soon that will help you , it’s a very difficult place to be in , just keep talking and getting support
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thank you ill try and take wants available out there
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Hello @Dez,
I am so sorry for the loss of your wife - that is devastating. I’m hearing how painful this is all feeling and I want you to know that you’re not alone. There’s always someone out there to help you through this.
It sounds like you’re looking for support and I’m glad that you’ve been able to talk about how you’re feeling here. We know that a lot of people experience suicidal thoughts when they are grieving. We have a video about it here which you might find helpful:
https://griefguide.sueryder.org/support/suicide
There is lots of other support out there, and I would really encourage you to reach out and speak to someone about how you are feeling.
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If these thoughts of suicide become overwhelming, please call 999 or contact your GP for an emergency appointment immediately.
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Samaritans are available 24/7 to talk about anything that you are worried about in confidence. You can call them on 116 123.
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Shout are contactable by text, 24/7. You can text REMEDY to 85258 and talk to them about anything.
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You can also find your local NHS urgent mental health helpline.
Sue Ryder offers an online bereavement counselling service. This is a free service and sessions are held via video chat so you can attend from home. There’s more information about this service here: sueryder.org/counselling.
You can also make an appointment with your GP and ask to be referred to counselling or other support services in your area.
You deserve care and support so please, @Dez, get in touch with one of these services.
Take good care,
Seaneen
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Thank you so much they said cbt therapy is 4 to 6 months wait but in the meantime I would like to air out thank you I’ll look into the the services you sent 
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Dez u take care
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You too no matter how we was before it’s so different now bless all of you on here whatever your going through
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I hope you get the answers you need, you are not alone, there are friends on here
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Good morning thank you I need friends as most has passed moved and loss of contact this morning was the best sleep I’ve had for months I really don’t want it to seem like me me me as were al going through things and I am a good listener thanks for my replies it has helped in a way stay blessed
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So so sorry for your loss.
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Daz i lost my wife last month i know what pain u going through u can talk to me if needing friends
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My condolences gibbo to you I feel your pain my wife’s inquest is to and I hope they find the doctor and others to blame it is hell right now I need to find things to do as I am off work sick I have offered building work for free just to take my mind off and switch my brain off for a bit I hope your ok and I truly understand bless you take care
Desmond
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Des you take care hopefully we will somehow ease the pain and pull through this it will be hard
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Daz do some charity work it might help
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Dez .i can sympathise with you on this.i lost my gorgeous beautiful wife sue on 1st February last year and I feel so angry with scunthorpe hospital for the foul up over the last few years .were all here for you dez
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My condolences Martin bless you I am sorry for your loss i got no words to say but hang in there like I am trying to do bless you
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Dez thankyou.I appreciate this
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Hi mate I do too stay blessed
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