Hello I’m new here . I lost my mother just over 3 months ago. Me and mum were close shared everything like best friends. I’m struggling to find anything to fill the whole she’s left behind.
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Hi @Shell22,
Thank you for bravely reaching out, and I’m so sorry to hear about the loss of your mum. It sounds like you shared a really close relationship, and it’s completely understandable to be struggling to fill the hole she’s left behind.
You are not alone. I’m not sure if you’ve read through our Losing a parent category yet, but there you can connect with other members who are living with grief after losing a parent.
I’m sure someone will be along to offer their support to you. In the meantime, you might find these Sue Ryder resources helpful to read.
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Our Losing a parent page talks through some of the emotions you may be experiencing
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Our Grief Guide self-help platform which has information, resources and advice to help you through your grief
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Our Bereavement Information pages which can walk you through what you are going through
I hope you find the community to be a support to you. Take good care and keep reaching out 
Hello shell22, so sorry for the loss of your mum..i lost my husband in March. Losing our loved ones definitely leaves a hole in our lives, there is no one who could possibly fill that emptiness, but we hafta find a way forward in our lives , our loved ones would want us to be happy, its still early for us both, ..i hope you have family around you to help you cope with your loss, and I hope posting on this site helps you talk about your feelings. Take care and God bless you 