I lost my mum last year and its Nearly 6 month now. There isnt a day thst goes by where i dont think of my mum.
All of my emotions i feel.
People say thst time is a healer .xx
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Same, i coming up to the 6 month mark too since i lost my mum. Time has stood still for me. I dont believe time is a healer…well i hasnt been for me yet, but people tell me its still early. Take one small small, one small breath every day and thats all we can do. So i totally understand, how you want that magic time machine, so the pain will stop…i want that too. Sending much love and care xx
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I lost my mum suddenly 6 months ago I spent 12 hours in resus with her 4 of which were waiting for her to die after drs said there was nothing they could do for her. You’ll have ok days and think theres progress then you’re right back in the moment. I’ve lost both parents now and class myself as an orphan.
As I lost my dad 30 years ago I do know time does heal but there are stages of grief we have to negotiate so hang on in there
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I lost my dad five years ago. He had cancer and suffered greatly. Mum died suddenly on new year’s eve. Died as she wished with no suffering like dad, she was 83. I feel that I handled my dad’s death much better than I am with mum. Perhaps it’s because I had to be strong for mum who knows but the grief I’m feeling now is in another level!! Anxiety wasn’t expected. Sending love and strength to all going through this 
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Reading these comments has reminded me so much of mum.
How she was when she was at the same stage as I am 14 months after my dad died and how I am 14 months after my husband died. The last 8 months of her life she sort of adjusted. Embraced her dependence. I recall she renewed her faith. She used to say she had no one else. So she obviously prayed.
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