I lost my mum in December and I’m finding it really hard I don’t like thinking about it cause then I feel like I will break down. I keep thinking about how she won’t be around to see me get married, have kids, etc. I just feel so lost with out her
Hi @Lic feeling lost without your mum is common amongst us who have lost ours unfortunately
I lost my mum in September and have never felt lonelier in my life. Sometimes it’s good to talk about it though, to help process it all. I had grief therapy after mum passed and it helped in a way to work through some of the harder things that happened, but I’m still very traumatised and upset by it all. I haven’t come to terms with it properly yet and maybe never fully will. I think we just have to give ourselves time. Do what feels right. Talk on here if it helps. You’re not alone ![]()
Sorry for your loss. I am six months on losing my beautiful mum, i still havent accepted she has gone and every day is a struggle. But every day i get up and i try and thats all you can do. Take your time, sending love and care
x
Hi, I lost my mum two weeks ago… It feels unreal, I feel like she will just walk into livingroom any moment. I miss her so much, I don’t know how to cope…
Hi just baby steps, not day to day but hour to hour, that’s what im doing, it’s so hard, sending you hugs
x
Hi pixi
Can i ask you how many years Go was it whenbyou lost your parent?.and how dod you coped with hardiest time?
Lots of hugs.
Hi @Missingmom123
I lost my mam 15th January this year and it’s still very raw. My grief is always there but it comes in waves, that’s when I just have to sob my heart out. Its like a release of pressure, after that the pain eases just enough to carry on. The more you read on here, the more you learn that although everyone’s grief is unique to them, we all have some of the same physical and emotional feelings, we all now know what a broken heart feels like
Please message any time and keep posting because id does help
Sending you lots of hugs ![]()
Be kind to yourself xx
Hi pixi
Thanks for your kind words.and am here if you need to talk.big hugs.xxx