I lost my wife sue 5 weeks ago which as I’m writing I still can not believe Sue was the love of my life & I feel totally lost without her she was my life, so I can relate to the posts on here.
My wife suffered a short illness so it came as such a shock also as she was very fit walking / running most days we were luckier than some as we spent last 5 years in Spain 
as we retired early something Sue convinced me to do which I’m so pleased we did have that time but very sad we can not now fulfill our dreams & plans
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Hi @Ianangel381 so sorry for your loss. It’s over two years since my husband died, I still find it hard each day , this site has been a lifeline for me , you can just say how you feel , and say stuff you can’t or don’t want too with family , Im sure you will get a lot of support , xtake carex
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Hi. I lost my beautiful wife 4 weeks ago suddenly, one minute she was here, the next she was gone. The pain I am feeling is suffocating and I honestly don’t know if I can carry on. She was the love of my life and the thought of never speaking to her, touching her, being with her is tearing me apart. We have 2 children and I know I need to be there for them but I just want the pain to stop. If I hear one more person say “time is a great healer” I’ll scream, I can’t see past the next hour let alone what tomorrow will bring. We had plans for our future which will never be fulfilled and it feels so cruel. I haven’t slept properly since she passed away and when I do I dream about her and we’re together but when I wake up I’m back to square one. It’s exhausting.
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I’m so sorry for your loss. I’m 5 months in and I wish I could say it’s easier. Sadly, all of us on here know how brutally painful it is. Maybe try to be kind to yourself, what you’re going through is a pain beyond description. I wish you peace.
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