Hello , I’m new on here , so first post
. I lost both my parents , my dad a few year ago and my mum last year , they really were my best friends . We saw each other all the time , spoke everyday , I went to them if I had any problems . I miss them soooooo much and feel so unhappy without them . I sometimes feel like it’s over for me now as i am so lonely and sad without them . I’m just so unhappy without them .i have a partner and grown up children but the loss of them is unbearable . I’m not even putting a Christmas tree up this year , just can’t face it . Does it ever get better .
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It does get better, but you have to make an effort to make it happen. Every moment of your life is unique and almost impossible to replicate, the good and the bad. Don’t forget to live it; your parents would’ve wanted you to live it to the fullest.
I’ve lost both my parents too, so I understand and I’m sorry you’re hurting.
I’ve spent two years making an effort and I can’t say I’m any closer to knowing if it gets better. It’s a hard road to walk on and the time it takes is different for all of us. People here on the forum get it, though, and that’s a comfort. Sending hugs. ![]()
Thank you Peter .