Lost and alone

Its been nearly 18 months since i lost my husband and Im still so angry with the hospital. I feel i can’t move on.
Its hurts everyday, I feel so lost and alone. We’d been married for over 50 years, he was my soul mate.


Hello @Jadie1,

Thank you for reaching out. I’m so sorry to hear about your husband. It’s completely understandable that you’re feeling so lost and alone without him.

I’m just giving your thread a gentle bump - hopefully someone will be along to share their support.

Take care,

So sorry to hear this. I lost my husband of 46 years in November. Just have to take one day at a time. I have good days and bad days. People say it gets easier and I just have to trust that it will. Look after yourself

I can sympathise with you feeling lost and alone after losing your soulmate. I lost mine in August after 30 years together. Nothing can prepare you for the pain and loss, but by being a part of this online community you will see that you are not alone. I know that words cannot ease your pain, but time will. All of us are experiencing similar pain due to human nature, but being human means we will also recover and continue to live our lives, remembering and honouring our lost loved ones in whatever way we can.

Hi can sympathise with you so much i lost my partner of 33 years to cancer and all the treatment seemed until one hospital just slightly out of our trust/area took her in, it was a nightmare young doctors not knowing what to do doing wrong things treatment was terrible and worse of all being in the dark of her details!! It will haunt me for a long time as she deteriorated so quick from then…it was her choice to go because hospitals were so full,wish id never called and found out.

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Good morning, hope you are having a good day. I ask this because when you lose someone that’s how it is good days and bad days. My partner had Cancer too and of course they can only provide so much treatment before it takes over and takes the ones we love. I take comfort from getting messages like yours knowing that I am not the only one suffering loss and hope that you can too. Though I don’t know you, I feel for you and all those who are grieving because we are all going through a process that we didn’t choose. Continue to engage with people on this site, it will help you.


Hi Jadie I understand your pain and I’m so sorry for your loss I lost my fiancé last July although we were together for 3 years losing him was the worse day of my life having a conversation on the phone then next minute been told he passed away I literally screamed the house down but I managed to find comfort in this group for support I believe they also do counselling if you would like to talk to someone outside the group always know that our loved ones are always with us in our hearts :two_hearts: their are days when I feel I’ve lost my beloved all over again and I cry :sob: so deep it hurts just but being in this group gives me comfort knowing I’m never alone look after yourself and remember we are all here for you x

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