Lost my dad to cancer in January.
The worst thing I’ve ever had to go through.
He was in sue ryder for 3 weeks with his pain under control, staff and doctor kept saying my dad needs to go in a nursing home, made me feel like he was a burden, the poor man was dying and all they could go on about was they need the bed.
It was only me he had and everyday I would try to go see him, when I went into his room, he’d say they want me out of here, I was so angry, my poor dad was dying and scared and all there worried about was the bed, bearing in mind I saw a lot of free beds.
I never wanted to visit my dad in sue ryder, I didn’t want him to have cancer but he did and was scared.
I was in a state going around looking for a nursing home, I found 1 he wasn’t even there 5 days and he died.
While he was there he fell out of bed and cut his eye open, it broke my heart, seeing him like that and him telling me to get him out of there .
So hope your happy with rushing my dad out of sue ryder for his bed, where he could of stayed and died where he was settled