I recently (nov24) lost my dad who had prostate cancer for 2 years. I convinced myself to believe that he may be able to live a full (ish) life as this type of cancer “can be managed” but all of a sudden he was gone. I feel like in all aspects of life I am on the outside looking in and still can’t believe that this has happened.
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Hello @Gunner1,
I can see that you’re new to the community, so I wanted to say that I am so sorry for the loss of your dad that brings you here.
I’m sure someone will be along to offer their support, but I wanted to share a few Sue Ryder resources with you that may help right now.
- Our Grief Guide self-help platform which has information, resources and advice to help you through your grief
- Our free Online Bereavement Counselling which is held via video chat
- Our Bereavement Information pages which can walk you through what you are going through.
You might also want to look at: Losing a parent - coping with the death of a parent | Sue Ryder
Thank you again for sharing – please keep reaching out and know that you are not alone.
Take care,
Alex
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Hey i know how you feel.
I was looking after my dad and he had cancer to, we visited the consultant he admitted him into hospital that day we had only gone for the test result he had cancer of the lymph nodes and blood cancer
They gave him chemo and he was allergic to it. He went into hospital on the 28th Dec and died 4th Feb 24 but i feel exactly the same as you 
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Hi I too lost my dad to liver cancer, was one tiny tumour so we decided to have treatment. 2 weeks after his treatment he died due to the gall bladder being perforated .
This was 7 months ago and I can’t get mind head around it all x
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